Thursday, September 17, 2009

Great Weekend with our DIPG family!

Hello All



Sorry its been a while since we updated. We've been busy having fun as always. This past weekend Ben and I were lucky enough to get to travel to Scranton PA to attend the Aimee Dickey Childhood Cancer Awareness Walk. Aimee died this past December of a DIPG, same as what Ben has. The walk was amazing but even more amazing was we got the opportunity to meet so many DIPG families, I have communicated with them all through email and websites for months now, and have followed the stories of there children, but to meet face to face and laugh and cry together was a great experience for me and Lil'Ben. He has been asking for quite a while to meet another kid who has the same type of cancer as him. We know a couple other brain tumor cases at Children's here in New Orleans but there tumors were operable and thats quite a different thing. Most of our cancer friends have Leukemia or bone cancer, and we truly love these families and gain a ton of support from them. But when your the only DIPG (that we know of) in Louisiana its kind of lonely in a sense.



So Friday night Ben and I headed to Scranton. Due to bad weather we were stranded in Detroit for the night and didn't make it to Scranton till the next morning. But that was the only set back all weekend! We met up with the families at a BBQ that afternoon and Ben got to meet Alexis a fellow DIPG warrior 3 years old and cute as can be! She was diagnosed a few months before Ben and is doing really great! We are so happy for her. Ben was a little tired and grumpy from the unexpected morning traveling we had to do so we went back to the hotel and got a good nap in to get us ready for the big event on Sunday. Saturday night Ben's cousins from Maryland drove down, up , over whatever direction it takes to get to PA from Maryland! So we met up for dinner at Ben's all time favorite restaurant Applebees! He was so excited to see them he has been talking about wanting to see Andy for weeks. Andy is 5 and just a few months younger than Ben. He gets to see most of his cousins all the time because they all live in New Orleans, but only gets to see Andy, Lauren and baby Abby once or twice a year so this was a big bonus for us.



It was a little cloudy and rainy on Saturday so we were concerned about the weather for Sunday, but our DIPG angels definitely came through for us because Sunday morning was clear blue skies and not a rain cloud to be seen. We went to breakfast with the cousins again and then headed over to the walk. We had a great time there were bounce houses, and a National Guard vehicle to climb around and go for rides in, food, face painting, balloon animals, and of course the fabulous Dari!! Dari is an amazing photographer that has adopted the DIPG community and all its kids. She took some great shots of Ben and I but most of all she is a great person who loves giving and stealing sugar! Everyone fell in love with Ben, really how can you not! There were beautiful speeches by Ms Annette (Aimee's mom) and other DIPG parents and supporters, and then it was time for the walk to start. Ben, Alexis, Jacob (another DIPG warrior we met on Sunday) and sweet Lizzie's parents cut the ribbon to start the walk. The hardest part was getting Ben to actually wait for Ms Annette to tell him it was time to cut! After the official walk part of the walk there were craft tables set up, and music and lots of people just having fun. Ben colored about 35 wooden Christmas Ornaments at the craft table - yes I think that was the record!! After a very long day we headed back to the hotel for swimming and then dinner out with the DIPG families. What an amazing day!!! The next morning we headed to the airport only to find Ben's cute little face on the front page of the Scranton Newspaper, so we bought all the papers available at the airport! Here is the link for those of you who don't get the Scranton Times-Tribune! Hundreds work to raise childhood cancer awareness
Source: http://www.scrantontimes.com/ needless to say we spent the rest of the day trying to avoid the Paparazzi!!


To all my DIPG family I can't tell you what this weekend meant to us! Ben made alot of great new friends, Nikki, Mathew, Alexis, Jacob, KK, Emma, Jordan, Angel Autumn's brothers...so many more I'm having trouble remembering all the names!! And I got to connect with the people that have been so wonderful for support, education, and understanding for me over these last nine months!



So how is Ben doing your wondering....well he is doing good. He has gained a lot of weight as a result of the steroids that are a necessary evil to keep the swelling in his brain down due to the new tumor growth. The extra weight makes it difficult for him to move around and he has some mood swings, but those aren't to bad this time around. We have tried to wean him off the steroids as fast as possible to try and keep these very annoying side effects to a minimum. But its taking longer than I would like. He is on 2mg right now, we tried for 1 mg last week but he began having trouble walking and falling alot so we had to take him back up to 2mg. We will try 1mg again next week! Ben is going to school still and doing well. This week we have decided full days are just to difficult on his body he needs more rest than the 45 minute nap they have at school so I have started picking him up at 1:30pm and his misses the last 90 minutes of school (45 of which is there normal nap time anyway) this allows him to have a 3 hour nap and then have a fun late afternoon playing and swimming with Shaun and his friends. With the 45 minute nap he was falling asleep at 5:30 pm and then waking up at 4am so hopefully this change will be a much healthier schedule. Ben's new school has been really great about accommodating his schedule and his needs. Ben has Chemo again on Wednesday its a full 8 hour day hooked up to IV's but luckily this week our friend Kale has Chemo too, so there will be good friends to pass the time with! We are not sure when our next MRI is, I'm not looking forward to it so I figured no use worrying about the date yet!



Okay football fans - Ben will be the captain at the Saints Game on OCTOBER 4, 2009! So watch out cause he has got some plays ready there is no way the Saints are going to loose on the 4th!! We'll keep you posted with details on that!



Okay I can't get pictures to post for some reason today! Pictures coming soon.



Much Love

The Sarrat Family!

23 comments:

Dianna in Gonzales said...

Hello There Pirate Ben!!!! Wow, so your picture was on the front page of a newspaper in a whole other state-Talk about Star Power!!!! It's so nice to read about the fun you are having have with your friends and family. I wonder, do you realize how blessed you are to have such awesome parents that care SO much about you having fun!!!! Of course, they are SO, SO, SO blessed to have such an AWESOME son too.

I am SO psyched to read that you will be the team captain for the Saints at a game. Does that mean you get to flip the coin on the field? Yet again, you will show your star power.... I can't wait to see that game, so I can tell everyone I know, see that little boy, down there on the field? His name is Pirate Ben, and he is my hero!

Anonymous said...

Hey Guys,

Sounds like a great trip! Can't wait to see pictures. How cool getting your picture in the paper.You are sure a popular pirate. The Saints game will be fun too. We will be looking for you on TV.Take care and keep having lots of fun. Anna misses seeng you in clinic.

Love and Prayers,

Cindy and Anna

Ms. Amy said...

Ben,

That is a pretty cute pirate photo on the front page of the paper. You must have been so excited to see your picture. That is pretty special and so are you and your Mommy for traveling all the way to Scranton Pensylvannia to help with the walk!

Love,

Ms. Amy & Myriah

Anonymous said...

Hey Ben,
So you are famous now! How's it feel to have your pic on the front page! I'm glad you and you mom had fun or your trip.
Kale can't wait to see you on Wednesday!
Love Kale & Mrs. Melanie

Anonymous said...

Hiya, Ben,

What a trip you had, and what fun. So many new friends AND a chance to see your cousin. After all that I'd have thought you'd have needed a lot of extra naps! And I know you're looking forward to that Saints game. Wish we could get the Saints way up here in Viking and Packer country but will be thinking of you. Our Megan's coming to see us up here in late Oct. We can hardly wait. I don't know how she can bear to leave those cute chickens.

Love and hugs, Ms. Peg

Ms. Alisa said...

hey ben
It looks like you had a great time on your trip. I can not believe you colored 35 ornaments, that is soo funny. I saw that you ate at applebees thats my favorite place also. I hope you ate some of there great desserts for me. I will be looking for you at the saints game on october 4 little man..your gonna do great. Hopefully i will see you at school on tuesday... have a great day at school tomm.
all the love and prayers in the world.

Uncle Peter and Aunt Robyn said...

Hey Ben -

We miss you little man! It was sooo great to see you last weekend. Andy and Lauren keep talking about how much fun they had with you and Queen Erin (and they now love Applebee's too!!). Your pirate picture in the newspaper was so cute. Have a great week at school! Love you!! Aunt Robyn

Unknown said...

Hey there Ben! It's your Pirate Buddy, Micki. Just wanted to tell you thank you for the sailboat ornament! I love the way you colored it! We put it in our Angel Mariah's room so we will never forget the awesome time we had in Scranton, meeting you and your mommy. Ahoy there, Mattie!

Take Care,
Micki Klein

The Barons said...

Ahoy Ben,
You are one good looking pirate!!! Way to cut the ribbon and have a great day! I'll bet your grandma and grandpa will get one of your special ornaments that you made. We will make a point of seeing your artwork!

The Saints are lucky to have you on their side! We'll be sending good thoughts to them on the 4th! Since you are going to be at the Saints game, how about some football jokes?

Why did the football coach go to the bank?
He wanted to get his quarter back!

What's the best smelling position on a football team?
Right-guard!

Adios amigos!
Love ya!
Dave and Ginger

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the update! We are so happy that you had a great trip! Miss and love you guys!

Mike, Kelli, Madi and Mikie Messenger

Dianna in Gonzales, LA said...

Happy Saturday Pirate Ben!!!! Just a little note to let you know that I am praying for you today!

Tiffany said...

Hi Erin,

You don't know me personally, however I do check in on your site every so often to see how Ben is progressing. Your website was given to me by my mother-in-law (Ann)which was given to her by Nikki (Sister-in-law). I'm sure you remember Nikki, you had met her at Children's Hospital in New Orlean's, when Arianna (her daughter) was just diagnosed with DIPG. It was a few months ago when you had met, but anyways I like coming to see your updates to see how everything is going. Your always welcome to visit Arianna's websites also, they are on www.carepages.com and u would type in her website name which is ahopetogetwell & we also have another one and the website for it is www.caringbridge.org/visit/ariannapaddie So, stop by sometime & leave a note. Anyways, it sounds like you guys enjoyed your trip, will visit your site again soon to check for more updates.
Tiffany

Anonymous said...

Erin,

I had to come back & correct something that I said on the comment I had left. I had said that you had met Nikki, but you hadn't met her in person, you had only talked to her over the phone. Hope you and your family are having a good day today.
Tiffany

Anonymous said...

I saw Heide's pictures from the Walk...so happy to hear that Ben is doing well and you are having fun. Take care and Go TEAM BEN...Team Unite is so proud of you!!!!!

Dianne Killian
www.teamunite.net

Janel Fielding said...

Erin, I was so excited to see all the Saints jerseys at SAS today in support of Ben and to hear that the children raised over $1,600 in his name. I hope he had a great time today at the dome and his playbook was excellent b/c the Saints pulled it out for him. We live just up the street at 3586 Mimosa Court and have 3 children at St. Andrew. Liam, in 3D, Julia Grace in KM (next door to Ben) and Chloe' in PKG (across the hall). If you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to call
391-0150. Riley walks down to play with Chloe'at least once a week. Riley loves our dogs. Chloe' and she are in the same class this year. Our children would love to come visit Ben and play puzzles or color or whatever. So would our dogs, but they don't color very well and tend to eat the puzzle pieces. Please let us know when he's up for a visit. We could come after his nap or on the weekend. You are all in our prayers each night...Janel Fielding

Anonymous said...

Hey Guys,

Just wanted to let you know you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
I bet the Saints game was fun, and the best part they won!
Let us know if you will be in clinic on Wed. Anna has some stickers for Ben. Thinking good thoughts for Tuesday.

Love and Prayers,

Cindy

Unknown said...

Erin,

We had the best time with you & Ben in Scranton. Little Scotty keeps asking if him and Ben can play soccer again soon. He had so much fun playing with Ben that day at the BBQ. I know that it is hard to hear that there is tumor growth, but just know that whatever trial you all choose for Ben, I know that we will be rooting you all on from NY. Scott, and I were wondering if you ever checked into Burzynski's clinical trial in Tx.? Just throwing it out there. If you need info on it, contact Dave and Annemarie Kulikowski (Angel Lizzie's Parents). I hope that you all are doing as well as you can. We all pray for Ben everyday. WE WILL NOT GIVE UP HOPE, BEN WILL HAVE HIS MIRACLE. We love you guys and hope to see you soon.

Sending Love, Hugs, Prayers,Smiles from NY,

Melissa, Scott, Scotty, Jacob, and Angel Autumn

www.caringbridge.org/visit/autumnwinchell

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